

When she refused to return, she lost her babies.

They tried to force her to return and threatened that she would lose her children if she did not. God then commissioned three angels to coax Lilith back to Adam. Adam, pining for his wife to return, complained to God of his loneliness. There in the wilderness she spawned a hundred demon babies. The most common myth is that Lilith then uttered God’s name, sprouted a set of wings, and flew off into the Red Sea. And because of this she demanded equality, which Adam rejected. There are variations to these legends, but the core is that Lilith was created out of the ground just as Adam. According to legend she was the first wife of Adam-but she refused to submit to Adam (or to God) and so she divorced him. The promoters of Lilith Fair picked the name because Lilith is the symbol of feminine power. So, who was Lilith? Is she really in the Bible? Who Was Lilith? "elf-sufficient women, inspired by the women's movement, have adopted the Lilith myth as their own," wrote Rivlin in the 1998 book " Which Lilith?" "They have transformed her into a female symbol for autonomy, sexual choice, and control of one's own destiny.Little did I know that the name Lilith actually comes from a myth borrowed from the story of the Bible. magazine, and the Jewish feminist magazine Lilith launched in 1976. In 1972, the writer and filmmaker Lilly Rivlin published a groundbreaking article about Lilith in Ms. It wasn't until the late 20th century that feminist writers and activists began to reinterpret the Lilith myth, not as a warning against becoming an uncontrollable, "wanton" woman like Adam's first wife, but as a role model for a different kind of female existence. Lieber says that some Hasidic folktales tell of court fights between human and demon offspring over an inheritance.

The Babylonian Talmud, an ancient source of Jewish law, states: " It is forbidden for a man to sleep alone in a house, lest Lilith get hold of him." It's believed that Lilith uses the stolen "seed" to impregnate herself with countless demon babies. Since Lilith was unable to have her own human children, she not only stole unprotected infants, but seduced men in their sleep and took their semen (an ancient explanation of "nocturnal emissions").

The Rabbinical commentaries and Jewish folktales surrounding Lilith all portrayed her as a wild, fallen woman cursed for her sin of rebelliousness. "What we get from Ben Sira is a desire to pull together different threads of all of the extant traditions surrounding Lilith," says Lieber, and also an explanation for a childbirth ritual to protect against sudden infant death that had already been in practice for centuries. Otherwise, she'd have dominion over newborn human babies during the first weeks of their life. By that point, she had already slept with Samael, chief among the demons, and vowed that she would not harm the human offspring of Adam and Eve if they wrote her name on a protective amulet during childbirth. God sent three angels after Lilith named Senoy, Sansenoy and Semangelof, who demanded that she return. Lilith stormed off, pronouncing the "ineffable name of God" and flying away. The infamous account appears in " The Alphabet of Ben Sira," a satirical and borderline heretical Jewish text from the Middle Ages that poked fun at biblical figures and incorporated elements of popular folklore.Īccording to Ben Sira, the first woman created alongside Adam in Genesis 1 was indeed Lilith, and she and Adam "immediately began to quarrel." When Adam insisted that Lilith "lie beneath" him during sex, she wasn't having it, replying, "You lie beneath me! We are both equal, for both of us are from the earth." Then, in the ninth century C.E., we got the first full-blown treatment of Lilith as Adam's disobedient first wife. Was the unnamed woman created in Genesis 1 someone other than Eve? And was it Lilith? This intriguing question likely circulated in Jewish mythology and folklore for centuries. In Genesis 2, however, God first created Adam "from the dust of the earth" and then removed one of Adam's ribs to form Eve ( Gen. In Genesis 1, God created both man and woman at the same time – "male and female He created them" ( Gen. Upon close reading, there appear to be two separate accounts of how God created the first man and woman. Some early rabbinic commentators on the Hebrew Bible wondered, however, if Lilith hadn't made a secret appearance in the Book of Genesis. "The word 'lilith' is sometimes translated as a screech owl," says Lieber, "which is connected to the fact that in Ancient Near Eastern mythology, demon goddesses often had wings and bird feet." "Wildcats shall meet hyenas, Goat-demons shall greet each other There too the lilith shall repose and find herself a resting place."
